The Power of Praise
WRITTEN July 13, 2017
Praise is an extremely powerful motivator. With it, people feel good about themselves. Subsequently, they perform better. Don’t underestimate the power of praise.
THINK ABOUT IT
Why do we rarely praise others?
- What does criticizing another person do in the short term? In the long-term?
- Does criticism motivate others?
- Do you save keepsakes of success (trophies, certificates, letters, etc.)?
FACTS ABOUT PRAISE
People crave praise and recognition.
- People continue behaviors for which they receive positive reinforcement.
- Well-deserved praise motivates better employee performance.
- Praise creates a pleasant work environment, and encourages employees to stay with their current employer.
- Public recognition of accomplishments boosts the person’s self-esteem and allows others to appreciate the praiseworthy act as well.
FACTS ABOUT CRITICISM/LACK OF PRAISE
It’s easy to dish out criticism.
- People find it difficult to give compliments, recognition, and praise.
- Criticizing others is counterproductive – it extinguishes the fire of ambition.
- A leader’s failure to praise causes staff to adopt a negative attitude. Then, employees do only enough to get by.
- When praise is given too frequently, and for inconsequential accomplishments, it becomes meaningless.
FORMULA FOR PRAISE
Praise must be:
- SINCERE (genuine, honest, truthful, earnest, straight, heartfelt, frank, open)
All praise should be genuine. Half-hearted or insincere praise can do more damage than none at all.
People spend their whole lives working toward achieving character traits. Praising them for these traits will validate their hard work.
|“You’re a good manager.”
||“You balanced all employees’ schedules so that all positions were covered. Your efficiency is admirable.
|“You run a good meeting.”
||“You ran today’s meeting at a brisk pace and kept everyone’s interest.”
- BASED ON EVIDENCE
Without evidence, praise is hollow. Saying to someone, “You’re a hard worker,” is kind and polite, but is weak when compared to telling that person HOW s/he is a hard worker. What does that person do that makes her/him a good friend?
This information is from a customized training for a client, and is related to material in the Power of Praise training session.
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In Praise of Praise – Forbes.com
How to Give Praise in the Workplace, According to an Austin CEO – BizJournals.com
Leadership Training Video – Performance Matters: Praise
The 9 Elements of Highly Effective Employee Praise